So are are you going to join us or what
I had a long drive to make today for a meeting I needed to attend for work. On the way there, yes during the meeting, and the way back home, I was thinking about the agreement between the wife and about cuckqueaning, female cuckolding, or whatever… Basically known infidelity.
1. How in the world does one go about finding a woman that would be a willing participant? Craigslist, general adult personal sites(adult friend finder), specific personal site (fetlife), oh where and how to put myself out there? I mean really, is this underground lifestyle of cuckqueaning really such a fringe that it could be difficult task, or is cuckqueaning just different enough that people are doing it, as things like chastity seem to be less extreme then cuckolding, that they have not really put a name to it?
2. This is a little different than living a cuckold lifestyle as we are experienced swingers and live that lifestyle, but adding to our swinger activities. With that said, I have to figure out scheduling. I am an adult college student, with a full time job, and married to a lovely woman whom I adore. Where do I cut time to explore this facet of sexuality? Dunno, homework sound like a good place to start, but I want good grades, lol.
3. I wonder if a woman cuckolding her husband would be interested in a guy cuckqueaning his wife? Has this been done? If it has, was it a successful endeavor? It would be an interesting explenation at a resteraunt. “I am married to her, he is married to her, I am going to have sex with his wife while my wife and her husband watch. My wife will clean us up and join in for round two while her husband just gets to watch, that sissy dick.”
So obviously I have a lot of questions and a lot of research to do.
I will post pictures cuckquaning as I find them, along with what I find out along this exploration..
We have established a one rule for this exploration, as it is more of an addition to our lives as swingers, and not a cuckoldry lifestyle. The main rule in this exploration is that there is no hiding of activities with others. Including text messages, chats, emails, and other forms of communications. Other than that, it is free reign of how to procede.
Now I just need to decide how to find some willing. Where should I look for a willing person in this participation?
My wife has decided she wanted to try being a cuckquean and asked if I would be willing to explore this side of our sexuality as a couple. I agreed, as we are experienced swingers, and we both enjoy exploring each others fantasies. We add what we enjoy, and do not revisit that in which we both did not derive pleasure from. I am creating this blog in order to make a journal of our experience, what worked for us and what did not work for us. We are not looking to live the cuckoldry lifestyle per se, as we are looking to add it to our lifestyle as swingers. I am also hoping to make connections in the cuckold / cuckquean world to help us out in our exploration.
How did my wife decide she wanted to explore being a cuckquean? Well, as I mentioned before, we are experienced swingers. During one threesome, my wife ended up having to take an important phone call. She sat there watching me entertain our guest longer than the phone call lasted. She loved being able to hear us when she was in the other room, and could not wait to watch us. After, talking about our threesome (we take the time to discuss each experience and then get completely turned on by it), she told me how much she enjoyed watching me with our female guest. Fast forward a few conversations later about female cuckoldry and now she is wanting to try it. How far? For how long? I am not sure, we take new experiences one step at a time and make sure the other is ok with what is either happening, or has happened. This is an exploration of a sexual experience, and we will see where it leads us.
Female cuckoldry seems to be more underground than cuckoldry (male cuckoldry). The correct terms for things are seemingly hard to find, so I apologize if I use them incorrectly as I learn them, or maybe have to coin some new ones if need be, lol.
If you are new to this type of lifestyle, or curious I would suggest looking here ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold )
I hoping to have regular updates, as I also plan to post our conversations about this as we further explore this sexual lifestyle. My time is in demand so I will be updating this blog as I can. Hopefully, with stories of experiences, as we move along this path.